My uncle died yesterday of a massive heart attack. Why? I can't help but keep asking why? He was in good shape. He exercised. He got a clean bill of health at his physical 4 months ago. And yesterday he got up and went to play racquetball and while he was there he died. He was so young. His kids are too young. He just became a grandpa for the first time 3 weeks ago.
This picture was on my cousins blog tonight. It sums him up. He was the fun, happy Uncle that always hugged you and messed up your hair and laughed and was always smiling. His wife is one of my favorite people in the whole world. She is always smiling and upbeat. I am not looking forward to watching her ache. I am so sad for them. The only consolation I feel is that through the principles of the gospel we know that they can be together not just for this life but for eternity.
That doesn't stop the tears from falling. This is all very familiar. My brothers and sisters were too young too when my dad died. I know the pain ahead and the sadness. I know how much I hate not having my dad around - even 13 years later. But I also know the comfort brought by the Holy Ghost. I also know the peace that can be felt when it's needed. They will be ok. We are ok. But it's just feels so unfair. I love you Smart family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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I love you Mel. I'll see you in a few days and we can all cry together. I'm glad Trav's sisters will be here. We need you guys.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is so hard when these happens so quickly, out of the blue. I will be thinking of you and your family. I hope you will all find peace after you are done mourning.
He sounds like a great man. I'm sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for you and your family. We are very blessed to have the knowledge that we do, being members of the church, but when it comes down to it, it is always hard to lose someone you love. I lost my brother just 2 years ago and though I know I will see him again, it's still hard sometimes.
And yes, sometimes, the tears still come. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
If anyone would like to see the obituary or sign the guest book, here is the link.
http://www.legacy.com/saltlaketribune/GB/GuestbookView.aspx?PersonId=119329521&PageNo=1
You're in my thoughts and prayers also! I'm so sorry for your loss! He sounds like a great guy and that picture is so fun. What great memories you must have of him! He certainly was a blessing!
I love fun uncles like your Uncle Gordon. I'm so sorry for your loss. Our family will keep you in our prayers.
I'm guessing you guys are already gone because you haven't been answering your phone. I've been aching for you. I know this is another huge blow. I don't know how your tender heart can bear it. I hope it will help to be with family. Love you, love you.
so hard, not fair, they will be blessed, I am going to hug dave even more. travel safe.
Mel. I am so sorry for your loss. But I am so grateful we have the gospel and the knowledge that all will be ok. I know the spirit will bring peace to your family, even though you will all miss him.
I hate sadness
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